How to tell overprotective parents you are dating
My Mother made me do a lot of housework and dishes when I was a teenager.I cooked supper almost every night from the age of 13 years old. I didn’t acknowledgement unless it was because I was grumbling against being the one that had to do it all.My mother taught me my value was in how Men reacted to me. My mother advised me that losing my virginity was a small price to pay to get everything I wanted in life.I was seventeen and being groomed by a 32 year old multi millionaire when she told me that.
And speaking of my being a “virgin” She didn’t believe that I was a virgin anyway… And her actions also proved that she knew better then she pretended to know. And actually, I am more upset about the fact that it got blamed on me, that I was labelled as the difficult one, the emotional one, and the over reactive one ~ than I am about the things that happened to me.
She was really interested in the “millionaire part”.
Instead of realizing or being concerned about the danger I was in, she only saw the benefits that she might have if I had a relationship with him. I am not talking about having “too high of expectations” of my mother and father.
Melanie Tonia Evans is an international narcissistic abuse recovery expert.
She is an author, radio host, and founder of Quanta Freedom Healing and The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program.